Olivia de Havilland
in Relationships
Olivia de Havilland responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. de Havilland often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Olivia de Havilland must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Olivia's need for times of withdrawal.
Olivia de Havilland is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Olivia de Havilland takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.
de Havilland works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Olivia, and she may invest more of her emotional energy into her career or public life than in her private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
No matter how she appears on the surface, Olivia de Havilland has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Olivia's sympathetic, affectionate side. She especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and she wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as she does. de Havilland is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
de Havilland is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and she enjoys sharing this kind of energy with her friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game, or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like a good time to her. In fact, Olivia de Havilland needs to do these things or otherwise she gets crabby.
Although de Havilland gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Olivia de Havilland to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Olivia de Havilland was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Olivia de Havilland feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Olivia's emotional well-being.
She is inclined to identify duty and happiness with each other. Self-disciplined and realistic, Olivia de Havilland expects very little. Once she has found her mate, Olivia de Havilland will be faithful, self-sacrificing and strongly attached to her partner.
Sensitive and sentimental, Olivia de Havilland is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to de Havilland to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Olivia de Havilland seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Olivia likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Olivia de Havilland very happy. Olivia wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Olivia de Havilland may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. de Havilland is a natural host or diplomat.
Olivia de Havilland has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well-being. It is rare for Olivia to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to de Havilland. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Olivia de Havilland to channel her passion.
Intimacy does not come easily to Olivia de Havilland and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, de Havilland does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Olivia de Havilland needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.
She is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and her relationships tend to be harmonious. Olivia de Havilland will probably marry for love and her mate will be a friend to her as well as a lover. The atmosphere in her family life is affectionate and protective.
Olivia de Havilland tends to suppress her feelings and she approaches other people with great reserve. She may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between her and others. But once Olivia de Havilland enters a relationship, she will be faithful and steady in her feelings for her partner.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 10th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon Conjunct Venus/Saturn
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 10th house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon
Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn
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