Nina Hartley
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Nina Hartley denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Nina Hartley needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Nina Hartley also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Nina Hartley a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Nina's past are especially dear to her.
Nina Hartley may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Nina Hartley was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Nina Hartley feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Nina's emotional well-being.
In addition to Nina's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Nina Hartley craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Hartley rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Nina Hartley tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Nina Hartley can create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Nina also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Nina Hartley craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Nina Hartley enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Nina wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Nina Hartley loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of her love relationships would last forever! Hartley needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from her partner, and she wants to feel very, very special, like a royalty, to her beloved. Nina Hartley also has an artistic flair and she enjoys creating art or beauty in some form.
Nina Hartley shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Nina's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Nina Hartley also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Nina likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.
Nina's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Nina Hartley is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Hartley is to being left out or unappreciated.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Nina Hartley rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Nina is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Hartley craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Nina Hartley needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Quincunx Uranus
Venus in Aries
Venus in 5th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
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