Nikki Griffin approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Nikki's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Nikki Griffin comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Nikki Griffin - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Nikki Griffin" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Nikki a little better. This page describes the disguise Griffin wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Ferociously proud and somewhat vain, Nikki Griffin likes to be impressive and to be considered special and unique. She is not timid, meek, or self-effacing, and is rarely content with staying in the background or in a subordinate position. She is a natural leader, and does not take orders from others very well. Griffin must have something of her own, something creative - be it a business, a project, a home or whatever - that she can develop and manage according to her own will and vision. Whatever Nikki does, she does it in a unique, dramatic, individual way. She likes to put her own personal stamp on it.
Nikki Griffin also has a very strong sense of dignity, self-respect, and personal honor and is deeply offended if someone treats her in a humiliating or dishonorable way. Griffin will rarely confront the offender - she is too proud to do so - but she will lose her affection and respect for them. Nikki dislikes pettiness and hates to be snubbed or ignored.
Griffin admires others who are strong individuals like herself. When Nikki Griffin befriends someone, Griffin is tremendously loyal, sincere, and willing to go to extraordinary lengths to make that person happy. She is very giving and generous, but her gifts are never anonymous - Nikki expects recognition and appreciation for them. She also expects the intense loyalty that she offers to her dear ones to be reciprocated. However, Nikki Griffin often has trouble developing relationships with people who are as strong as herself, for she does not really cooperate or share the leading role very easily. If she is not in the leading role, she aspires to be and will compete with the person who is.
Nikki Griffin has great heart and courage, and people often look to her for strength, encouragement, and affirmation. Nikki always puts her best face forward and rarely allows others to see her hurting, disheartened, or vulnerable. Nikki Griffin also has a very strong need for love, admiration, appreciation, and praise, although she does not like others to realize just how important it is to her.
Her outlook on life tends to be very personal and rather self-centered. Her own self-expression, self-actualization and self-realization interest Nikki more than anything else. Nikki Griffin feels that if she does her best where she is, the rest of the world will take care of itself.
She is forceful and energetic and goes for what she wants quite aggressively. She is a doer and an achiever and has a positive "I can" attitude. She may run over people and stir up opposition and conflict because Nikki Griffin tends to be very self-centered, or simply oblivious to the needs and intentions of others.
Nikki Griffin tends to get easily excited and may act a bit restless in the presence of other people. Always in motion, Griffin comes across like a whirlwind and has a constant need for different and new experiences.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Leo Rising
Mars Conjunct Asc.
Asc. Opposition Uranus/MC
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