challenges and difficulties
Sheridan is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Nicole Sheridan may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Nicole.
She may have vague but ever-present feelings of guilt and fear that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Nicole Sheridan does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Nicole Sheridan must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Nicole has an inner conflict between idealism, hope and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression due to limitations and practical realities. Nicole Sheridan needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve her aspirations. Sheridan will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Nicole Sheridan instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Nicole Sheridan needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Nicole Sheridan to become distracted from her path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to her. Nicole Sheridan needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Nicole directs her attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", she is apt to dabble, scatter her energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for her life and aligning her daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Sheridan's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward her personal development.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Sheridan's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Nicole Sheridan needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Nicole Sheridan back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Sheridan's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow her energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
Nicole Sheridan has a very affectionate attitude toward others and the capacity to love a lot of people. There probably is a very deep bond between Nicole and her friends, and when she falls in love, Nicole Sheridan is likely to love just as deeply.
Sheridan is a good team worker and has the ability to lead others. Her relationships and associations with others tend to be harmonious and cooperative. Nicole Sheridan may also have a very industrious family and she tends to be strongly attached to them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 12th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Venus/MC
N. Node Opposition Mars/Asc.