Nichelle Nichols
in Relationships

Nichelle does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Nichelle Nichols would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Nichelle Nichols avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Nichols. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Nichelle Nichols a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Nichelle's past are especially dear to her.

Nichelle Nichols may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Nichelle Nichols cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Nichols' motto.

Nichelle Nichols seems to have the wrong conception of the world around her and may suffer disappointments frequently. It is difficult for Nichelle to adapt herself and to acquire a community spirit, and she cannot achieve the inner understanding with others that she longs for.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Nichelle Nichols values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Nichelle desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Nichols, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Nichelle Nichols appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Nichols is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Nichelle Nichols thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Nichelle Nichols appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though she enjoys helping people, Nichelle Nichols will rarely put herself out too much in the process. She is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

Nichelle's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Nichelle Nichols is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Nichols is to being left out or unappreciated.

Intimacy does not come easily to Nichelle Nichols and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Nichols does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Nichelle Nichols needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

It is hard for Nichelle Nichols to express her feelings and emotions to other people. She may feel especially inhibited in matters of love relationships and could feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. Nichelle Nichols tends to feel lonely, even when she is in the company of others.

She is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Nichelle Nichols is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, she may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon Opposition Neptune/N. Node

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Trine Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Conjunct Saturn/N. Node

Venus Opposition Neptune/Pluto