Nia Long
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Nia Long only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Long.
Nia has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Nia Long has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Nia Long to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Nia Long has a great deal of emotional depth.
Nia Long may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Long has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Nia Long wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Nia is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Nia Long expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
Her health should be good and her recuperative powers are strong. Nia Long is able to express her feelings harmoniously and she considers herself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. She is well liked and her relationships with others are congenial.
Nia Long thinks big and is insatiably curious. She is interested in many fields, is talkative and a pleasant conversationalist. Kind, easy-going and optimistic, Long has good comprehension and excellent command of language.
Her thinking is dictated by her feelings and Long may rely on her intuitions and impressions rather than practical means. Her advice may often be sought and heeded, because Nia Long seems to know and understand what motivates others.
Nia Long has a cheerful temperament and a harmonious disposition. Because of her easy personality, Long gets along easily with others. Home and family relationships are precious to Nia and her home is likely to be large and lavish.
In love relationships, Nia Long desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Nia "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Long can be very demanding of her love partner. Nia Long tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Nia Long is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Nia Long very happy. Nia wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Nia Long may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Long is a natural host or diplomat.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Nia Long and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Nia allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Nia Long, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Nia Long yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover. Long frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Nia Long does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Her attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Nia Long loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. She may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.
Nia does not hold back with her charms and shows everyone what she has to offer. Her personality is quite dazzling and enables Nia Long to attract many people. Her need for affection is strong; and Long will probably have very intense love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 9th house
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Sun/Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Mercury/MC
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/MC
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 10th house
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Conjunct Neptune
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Pluto/Asc.
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