Harry Hamlin
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Harry Hamlin only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Hamlin.

Harry has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Harry Hamlin has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Harry Hamlin to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Harry Hamlin has a great deal of emotional depth.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Harry Hamlin a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Harry's past are especially dear to him.

Harry Hamlin may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Harry Hamlin feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst, Hamlin can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Harry's emotional indulgence - Hamlin tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.

His mind is very impressionable and sometimes his imagination could be a little misguided. Harry Hamlin loves to daydream and to live in his own world of fantasies. But he is receptive and has a sympathetic understanding of others.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Harry Hamlin is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Harry Hamlin also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Hamlin is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Harry Hamlin is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Harry uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Harry Hamlin does.

Harry Hamlin is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Harry Hamlin pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Harry Hamlin is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Quincunx Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Neptune

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 1st house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Conjunct Neptune/Pluto