Neville Brand
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Neville should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Brand often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Brand's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Neville Brand insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Neville does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Neville Brand feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Neville Brand may have traveled extensively in his early years, or something in his background may have enabled him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Brand has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that he has never experienced before. Neville Brand wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Neville is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Neville Brand enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Neville wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Neville Brand very happy. Neville wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Neville Brand may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Brand is a natural host or diplomat.

There can be a lack of harmony or satisfaction in Brand's romantic relationships - not necessarily a great deal of open conflict, but simply an underlying tension or discontent. This is because the people Neville Brand finds likeable, lovable, and agreeable may not be attuned to his sexual tastes and needs. Another, more direct way of saying this is that the people Neville loves and the people Neville wants to make love with are very different from one another. Neville Brand may be confused about what he really needs and wants in personal relationships. Brand needs to acknowledge that he has some conflicting desires (such as a partner who is very gentle and sensitive but also a powerful, dominant personality; security and commitment in love relationships alongside a great deal of freedom and excitement.) Trying to satisfy both sides of the equation can be a tricky challenge.

Neville Brand experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Neville Brand has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Neville Brand can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 9th house

Venus in Aries

Venus in 10th house

Venus Quincunx Mars

Venus Square Pluto