challenges and difficulties
Campbell fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Neve Campbell may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Neve.
Neve Campbell takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Campbell a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Neve Campbell and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Campbell will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Her faith, optimism, and sense of possibilities are tempered by much caution, and often doubt or skepticism as well. Whatever hopes or visions Neve Campbell has for her life are firmly held in check by her sense of reality. At times she may wish for more freedom, but Neve also fears it and hang back. Neve Campbell may blame practical limitations or some external condition or the prevailing Authority for her own inhibitions.
Once she decides what she wants to do, Neve Campbell will pursue her goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for her deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Neve feel a little out of step with others. Neve Campbell takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Neve feels and how driven she is about the things that are important to her. Neve Campbell has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to her, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
At times Neve Campbell struggles with nebulous worries and insecurities, fears which may be difficult to name. Mostly, she may be afraid of getting acquainted with the inner workings of her mind and soul, feeling uneasy with anything irrational or intangible. Neve Campbell has to work hard to overcome being overly serious regarding the spiritual side of life, especially if her religious upbringing emphasized guilt and retribution. Reorienting herself in the direction of spiritual optimism will do much to lift the cloud of worry that settles over Neve occasionally.
Lacking confidence in herself, Neve Campbell has the feeling that her luck has abandoned her. She is inclined to sit and wait for the right opportunities to come along, placing too much emphasis on wishful thinking and is disappointed when nothing happens.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Neve Campbell instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Neve Campbell needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Neve Campbell has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that she is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Neve Campbell needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, she has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, she may encourage others to depend on her emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Neve Campbell needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in her relationships with others that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Neve Campbell between acting spontaneously and being true to herself versus modifying herself or her behavior to suit others. Neve Campbell seesaws between being inordinately concerned with her self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about her. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Campbell's task.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Neve Campbell back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Neve Campbell's rigid self-control overly restricts her ability to freely express herself or explore possibilities. She is excessively concerned with work, duty and security. She tends to be fearful, judgmental towards herself or others, and can feel alone and cut off from sources of nourishment outside herself. Neve Campbell should try to learn to relax and recognize that not everything is Campbell's responsibility.
The following are specific activities that will support Neve Campbell in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Campbell, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Neve Campbell should care for and nourish children, plants, pets or other people. She needs to make a home, create and sustain strong relationships with her family or a community that can support her and give her a sense of safety and belonging.
Neve Campbell should develop her listening skills and deepen her understanding and appreciation of women and their perspective. Neve Campbell has to learn to trust her own feelings, intuitions and emotional needs. She needs to care for herself in an accepting, non-judgmental way.
It is in Neve Campbell's best interest to take all that is good and helpful from her past and use it in a new way. (If she is so inclined, Neve may want to explore the potential of past-life regression to tap into gifts she has already developed).
Neve Campbell tends to be a bit too idealistic and may place too much hope on her relationships, resulting in frequent disappointments. Neve could be attracted to naive people, but some of her contacts also may turn out to be swindlers.
Neve likes beautiful surroundings and knows how to create harmony in her environment. Neve Campbell loves to be around people and has a strong desire to be influential in social circles.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 7th house
Jupiter Quincunx Saturn
Saturn Square Pluto
Saturn Quincunx Neptune
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/Neptune
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Opposition Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Moon
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.