challenges and difficulties
Gulbis both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting herself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Natalie, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Natalie Gulbis is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Gulbis.
Natalie Gulbis takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Gulbis a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Natalie Gulbis and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Gulbis will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
She is suspicious of groups, crowds, and social organizations. Gulbis is quick to pick up on social charades and insincerity and avoids the limelight and glamour. Natalie Gulbis is direct and to the point in speech and manner, stubborn and inflexible, and often unwilling to communicate her innermost feelings and thoughts.
She is likely to have very intense experiences in her emotional life and should guard against feelings of depression and inhibition. Natalie Gulbis could be plagued by inner turmoil and obsessive ideas or notions.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Natalie Gulbis instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Natalie Gulbis needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Natalie Gulbis is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Natalie Gulbis' growth. Natalie Gulbis needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Natalie Gulbis is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Gulbis' relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
Gulbis co-operate well with others and has the ability to give and receive stimulating suggestions. Natalie Gulbis is always receptive to new ideas and ready for spontaneous group efforts. She seems to have an instant recall of things and is likely to act just as quickly.
Her feelings are heightened when she is with others and Natalie Gulbis has the ability to open up to them and show her feeling without reservation. Lead by her instincts, Natalie is likely to have many spontaneous relationships with other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Moon/Pluto
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Uranus
N. Node Opposition Venus/Uranus