Nan Martin
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Nan should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Martin often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Martin's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Nan Martin insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Nan does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Nan Martin feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

Nan has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage and family traditions. In fact, Nan Martin may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Martin's ties to her mother are very strong and Nan also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members.

There is a side to Nan Martin that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Martin can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Martin. If Nan's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Nan Martin can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Nan is particularly prone to.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Nan Martin has a cheering effect on those around her. Nan likes and needs people, and others genuinely like her too. She enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to her. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to her emotional well-being.

There is another side to Nan Martin as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about fulfilling her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Nan Martin; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Nan Martin is apt to do more than her fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.

In addition to Nan's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Nan Martin craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Martin rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Nan Martin does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Martin tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and her relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Nan Martin enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

She is hard-working and tends to work till she collapses. Forceful and aggressive, Nan Martin comes on strong and has a tendency to be abusive when frustrated. Martin must learn to relax in order to avoid suffering total emotional or physical exhaustion.

She is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Nan Martin immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. She may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.

She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Nan Martin is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Nan Martin also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Martin is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Nan Martin thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Nan has an affectionate nature and is in harmony with her environment. Charming and friendly, she is on good terms with most of the people in her sphere. Her friends and associates mean a lot to Nan Martin and her relationships are positive and loving.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 4th house

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Opposition Mars/Pluto

Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Asc.