challenges and difficulties
Fariña is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Mimi Fariña may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Mimi.
Mimi Fariña takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Fariña a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Mimi Fariña and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Fariña will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Mimi Fariña strives and struggles a great deal with her ideals or spiritual aspirations. She may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or she may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, she can never quite divorce herself from her idealistic concerns.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Mimi Fariña instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Mimi Fariña needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Mimi Fariña is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Mimi Fariña's growth. Mimi Fariña needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Mimi Fariña to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Mimi Fariña has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
The following are specific activities that will support Mimi Fariña in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Fariña, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Mimi Fariña should foster self-discipline and learn to handle responsibility. She may shoulder an inordinate amount of responsibility as well as burdens that sometimes limit Fariña's activities and opportunities in life. However, this is a maturing and ultimately empowering process. She is also likely to be offered positions of tremendous responsibility, whether Mimi really wants such jobs or not, usually because she has invested real effort and made some sort of substantial contribution.
There may be considerable obstacles in her path - more adversity than others seem to face - and Fariña's task is to learn to cope with pressure and persevere.
She enjoys relationships with others who can tune into the spiritual world and Mimi Fariña is likely to join groups or associations that sponsor psychics and that explore the connection with karmic influences.
Mimi Fariña has a strong desire to share her opinions with others and is inclined to seek out people who have the same ideas that she has. She may enjoy studying and developing her intellectual interests with them.
Mimi has the inclination to gossip and spread stories or she could be the subject of gossip herself at times. Her perception of partnership and family relationships tends to be somewhat unrealistic, and Mimi Fariña may put up a good front and pretend to have a harmonious life.
Mimi Fariña has a very affectionate attitude toward others and the capacity to love a lot of people. There probably is a very deep bond between Mimi and her friends, and when she falls in love, Mimi Fariña is likely to love just as deeply.
Fariña constantly seems to be under tremendous pressure and she wants to achieve record performances. Because she has a strong desire to accomplish immense tasks through teamwork with others, Mimi Fariña has a tendency to demand too much of other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Square Neptune
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/MC
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Venus/MC
N. Node Conjunct Uranus/Pluto