challenges and difficulties
He is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing himself freely and openly is not easy for Ventimiglia. Milo Ventimiglia tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of his "performance" is an important task for Milo.
Ventimiglia is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Milo Ventimiglia does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Milo Ventimiglia better than being with groups of his own peers.
He is subject to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may have sudden, unexpected consequences and undesirable results. As he lacks the capacity to adapt, Milo Ventimiglia may encounter considerable tension in his relationships and is likely to have disputes or even violent fights with others.
Sometimes circumstances appear to be working against Milo, and he may have to confront major challenges. Milo Ventimiglia will probably have to work harder than others in order to succeed, thereby rendering him hard and cold hearted in his decision-making.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Milo Ventimiglia instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Milo Ventimiglia needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Milo stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Milo Ventimiglia has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Milo Ventimiglia feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Milo Ventimiglia calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Milo Ventimiglia needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in his relationships with others that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Milo Ventimiglia between acting spontaneously and being true to himself versus modifying himself or his behavior to suit others. Milo Ventimiglia seesaws between being inordinately concerned with his self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about him. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Ventimiglia's task.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Milo Ventimiglia back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being bound to past events and experiences because of his desire to belong, deep attachments to family and the familiar (even if they are neither nourishing nor helpful), the desire to nurture or be nurtured by others, and a strong resistance to cutting the umbilical cord.
Ventimiglia is inclined to seek out relationships with people who have the same interests and he has a desire to work with them on obtaining mutual objectives. Some of Milo's contacts or introductions could come about suddenly.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Opposition Moon
N. Node Conjunct Uranus/Asc.