Millie Perkins in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Millie Perkins denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Millie Perkins needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Millie Perkins also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Millie Perkins may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Perkins has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Millie Perkins wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Millie is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Millie Perkins cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Perkins' motto.
Her intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Millie Perkins that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. She may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Perkins' neediness often drives others away. When Millie Perkins does let herself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses she suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt she endured. She may also reenact these situations in her present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Perkins will do a lot of cleansing if she can listen to what her feelings are telling her. If not, Millie Perkins will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
Her mind is very impressionable and sometimes her imagination could be a little misguided. Millie Perkins loves to daydream and to live in her own world of fantasies. But she is receptive and has a sympathetic understanding of others.
Her emotional life tends to be a bit strange and she is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Millie Perkins must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving her.
In love relationships, Millie Perkins is steadfast and loyal, especially if she has a warm, demonstrative partner. She is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Millie enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. She is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of her loved one. Millie Perkins responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of her partner is very important to her.
Millie Perkins often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Millie. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Millie Perkins may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Millie Perkins - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
She is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Millie Perkins falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when her feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Millie to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Perkins' partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Millie Perkins, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to her.
Millie Perkins tends to be a bit envious and is inclined to begrudge other people. Quite suspicious, she may misconceive the relationships or associations of others, and become dissatisfied herself. Millie could also be subject to improper liaisons.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 9th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Opposition Mercury/Neptune
Moon Opposition Neptune/Asc.
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 12th house
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Opposition Neptune/N. Node
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