Helene Weigel
in Relationships

Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Helene Weigel is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Helene Weigel is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.

Helene Weigel often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Weigel thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Helene is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Helene Weigel has good psychological insight into others.

Helene Weigel takes offense rather quickly and her instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. She has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When she is not actively involved, she is not comfortable. Helene Weigel actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

Although Helene Weigel was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Helene's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Weigel's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Helene Weigel is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Sensitive and sentimental, Helene Weigel is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Weigel to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Helene Weigel seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Helene likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Weigel is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Helene Weigel thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Her tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Helene Weigel possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Helene may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Helene Weigel may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.

Helene's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Helene Weigel is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Weigel is to being left out or unappreciated.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Helene Weigel and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Helene allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Helene Weigel, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Opposition Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Trine Neptune

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 11th house

Venus Quincunx Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn