His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Michael Nesmith is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Michael Nesmith is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Nesmith depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Michael's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Michael Nesmith may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
Nesmith is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Michael Nesmith needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.
Although Nesmith gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Michael Nesmith to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Michael Nesmith has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Nesmith would react more intensely. Michael is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
Although Michael Nesmith was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Michael's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Michael Nesmith often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Michael Nesmith is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Michael has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Michael Nesmith may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.
He is hard-working and tends to work till he collapses. Forceful and aggressive, Michael Nesmith comes on strong and has a tendency to be abusive when frustrated. Nesmith must learn to relax in order to avoid suffering total emotional or physical exhaustion.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Michael Nesmith cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Nesmith's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Michael at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Michael Nesmith is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Michael Nesmith may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Michael desires.
Nesmith is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Michael Nesmith thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Michael Nesmith cannot or will not hold onto it. Michael Nesmith has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Nesmith's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Michael freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Nesmith could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.
Nesmith also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Michael Nesmith just wants to have a good time.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 7th house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Sextile Pluto
Moon Conjunct Mars/Pluto
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 11th house
Venus Opposition Jupiter