Merle Oberon
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Merle Oberon only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Oberon.

Merle has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Merle Oberon has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Merle Oberon to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Merle Oberon has a great deal of emotional depth.

Merle Oberon may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Oberon has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Merle Oberon wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Merle is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Merle Oberon either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Merle Oberon tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Oberon's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Merle Oberon will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

Merle's emotional life seems to be overly intense and her sexuality is very strong. Merle Oberon is likely to make many demands of her partner and she has to guard against possessiveness, jealousy and a tendency to force someone to love her.

Merle Oberon tends to be emotional inhibited when she is with others and therefore appear rather aloof. Although she may feel lonely, Merle is inclined to flee from crowds of people and to give the impression of needing protection.

Her emotional life tends to be a bit strange and she is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Merle Oberon must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving her.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Merle Oberon gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Merle Oberon may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Merle feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Merle Oberon idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Oberon is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Merle Oberon is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Merle uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Merle Oberon does.

Merle Oberon appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though she enjoys helping people, Merle Oberon will rarely put herself out too much in the process. She is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

Sensitive and compassionate, Oberon tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Merle has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Merle is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Chronically discontented, she is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Merle Oberon tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Merle has to learn to overcome her fears and general shyness with people.

She is inclined to have sudden attachments to others and may fall in love quickly. Merle Oberon warms up to people very rapidly, even if she sees them only once. In fact, Merle probably prefers a lot of changes in her relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 9th house

Moon Opposition Saturn

Moon Opposition Venus/Pluto

Moon Opposition Saturn/N. Node

Moon Opposition Neptune/Asc.

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 1st house

Venus Trine Jupiter

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Uranus/N. Node