challenges and difficulties
Melvin Belli often has a sense of longing or homesickness for something he cannot name or specify, and he may have both: great attraction toward, and fear of, mysticism and parapsychology.
Overcoming feelings of fear, guilt, anxiety, loneliness, or oversensitivity is an important task for Belli.
Melvin Belli takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Belli a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Melvin Belli and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Belli will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Once he decides what he wants to do, Melvin Belli will pursue his goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for his deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Melvin feel a little out of step with others. Melvin Belli takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Melvin feels and how driven he is about the things that are important to him. Melvin Belli has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to him, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Melvin Belli instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Melvin Belli needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Melvin Belli is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Melvin Belli's growth. Melvin Belli needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in any involvements he has with teams, clubs, organizations, networks, and the like that Melvin Belli is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above need to be channeled into some sort of group effort or experience, or have some impact on society at large.
The following are specific activities that will support Melvin Belli in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Belli, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Melvin Belli has to learn to communicate and express himself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Melvin to study, learn skills and develop his intellectual interests and capacities. Belli needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing his intellectual reasoning ability. Melvin Belli should practice using his mind, his thinking skills and his ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for him.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Melvin Belli to pursue.
He needs to give and receive affection, love and pleasure (primarily with the qualities described previously). Melvin Belli has to learn to respond to, appreciate and create beauty, art, harmonious surroundings and relationships. He needs to be aware of aesthetics and to do things in a gracious, pleasing manner. Melvin Belli has to start enjoying life, nurturing friendships and cultivating his ability to love and to receive love.
Melvin Belli should develop faith and confidence both in himself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help him. He needs to expand his willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable him to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with his time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Melvin Belli.
Melvin Belli tends to feel inferior and his attitude in the presence of others could be a bit negative or weak. He is inclined to shy away from groups and would be a rather quiet and passive member of an organization or association.
Not at all selfish, Melvin Belli has the ability to share the joy he feels with other people. Melvin seems to have a gift for getting more reserved people to open up, teaching them how to give and receive love and affection.
He is very obliging and always looks for relationships with other people. Melvin Belli tends to feel really at home with his family or in groups or associations that he may join. Melvin has a strong desire to feel at one with his community.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Pisces
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Square Pluto
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 11th house
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Venus
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Asc./MC