challenges and difficulties
Melina has difficulty asserting her will and desires directly and openly. She may also suppress her anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in herself are important tasks for Kanakaredes.
Her attitude toward religion, philosophy, and politics is very conservative and possibly narrow or rigid. On the one hand, Melina Kanakaredes may believe in nothing that is speculative or intangible, requiring proof for any idea presented to her. Each idea is thoroughly and systematically examined. On the other hand, Melina may tenaciously cling to her grand philosophical or metaphysical beliefs and opinions, refusing to modify them or to be open and receptive to others' insights and perspectives.
Her overall outlook on life is serious, and Melina Kanakaredes may feel that life or God will punish her if she does not watch her steps!
She is inclined to exercise self-control and tries to suppress her inner excitability or irritability. Kanakaredes can be somewhat self-willed, though, and strive to be independent. If Melina Kanakaredes feels that someone is holding her down too much, she may suddenly break up the relationship.
She is likely to have very intense experiences in her emotional life and should guard against feelings of depression and inhibition. Melina Kanakaredes could be plagued by inner turmoil and obsessive ideas or notions.
She is subject to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may have sudden, unexpected consequences and undesirable results. Not very adaptable, Melina Kanakaredes could have considerable tension in her relationships and is likely to have disputes or even violent fights with others.
She is not afraid of hard work and leaves no stone unturned in the pursuit of her objectives. Melina Kanakaredes has a strong desire to overcome any difficulties or obstacles in her way and will do this at all cost, even if it means having to use force.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Melina Kanakaredes instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Melina Kanakaredes needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Melina Kanakaredes benefits by becoming more aware of the rhythm of the seasons and the natural world, learning to slow down and allow life to unfold in its own time. Nurturing a garden, a child, or some other living, growing thing gives Melina Kanakaredes a sense of inner balance.
Melina Kanakaredes has a tendency to be deeply suspicious, to not take anything at face value and to see hidden agendas and dark motives even where none exist! Life does not have to be a constant conflict... Melina needs to learn to accept things as they are.
Kanakaredes also needs to develop patience, peace and stability by grounding herself in her daily work and behaving consistently and reliably towards others.
It is in her public life and career that Melina Kanakaredes is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Kanakaredes' reputation and standing in her community or professional circle, as well as how Melina Kanakaredes achieves her important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Melina Kanakaredes in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Kanakaredes, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Melina Kanakaredes should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put herself "out there", be seen and shine. Melina needs to be willing to take on a leading role. She needs to be a hero - a protagonist in her own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities she possesses. Doing creative work that she is proud of - anything that comes from Kanakaredes' heart and bears the stamp of Kanakaredes' individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than she is a way for Melina Kanakaredes to grow and become more whole herself.
She may have the feeling that she constantly has to surrender to the wishes of other people and she gives the impression of having a passive or indifferent role in her relationships. Melina Kanakaredes never takes the initiative and depends on the support of groups she is affiliated with.
Her relationships with others could be rather unstable and unreliable. With a somewhat negative attitude and weak will, Melina Kanakaredes avoids opposition and escapes her responsibilities. In her relationships she is likely to choose people who are asocial.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 9th house
Saturn Opposition Moon/Uranus
Saturn Opposition Moon/Pluto
Saturn Opposition Mars/Uranus
Saturn Opposition Mars/Pluto
N. Node in Taurus
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Opposition Moon/Neptune
N. Node Opposition Mars/Neptune