challenges and difficulties
Melanie Brown fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Melanie B may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Melanie B.
Melanie Brown is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Melanie B does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Melanie B better than being with groups of her own peers.
Melanie B has an inner conflict between idealism, hope, and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression by limitations and practical realities. Melanie B needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve her aspirations. Melanie Brown will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
She is subject to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may have sudden, unexpected consequences and undesirable results. Not very adaptable, Melanie B could have considerable tension in her relationships and is likely to have disputes or even violent fights with others.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Melanie B instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Melanie B needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Melanie B to become distracted from her path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to her. Melanie B needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Melanie B directs her attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", she is apt to dabble, scatter her energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for her life and aligning her daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Melanie Brown's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward her personal development.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Melanie Brown's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Melanie B needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
Melanie B tends to pick her friends and associates very carefully and is always on the look-out for responsible and congenial people. This enables Melanie B to feel secure with her colleagues and she enjoys good relationships with them.
She is likely to offer help and protection to people around her and encourage moral values. Melanie B stands up for social justice and unselfishly works for the good of her community. Refusing any kind of personal advantages, Melanie B lives in harmony with everyone.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 11th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
Saturn Opposition Mars/Uranus
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Sun/MC
N. Node Opposition Jupiter/Saturn