Matthew Perry in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Matthew Perry only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Perry.
Matthew has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Matthew Perry has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Matthew Perry to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Matthew Perry has a great deal of emotional depth.
Matthew has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Matthew Perry may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Perry's tie to his mother is very strong and Matthew Perry also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Matthew Perry either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Matthew Perry tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Perry's relationships with his mother, will determine whether Matthew Perry will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
He is very intuitive and has the ability to make the right decisions guided by his inner feelings. Matthew Perry has a sense of honor and pride and is considerate of others. Others respect Perry and are willing to help him, because he does not act out of petty motives.
He is very ambitious and his energy is based on his feelings. Matthew Perry may feel that he has to assert himself regardless of the risks that may be involved. Matthew could have considerable tension with others and is not likely to compromise.
Sensitive and sentimental, Matthew Perry is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Perry to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Matthew Perry seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Matthew likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Matthew Perry often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Matthew. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Matthew Perry may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Matthew Perry - having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 4th house
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Conjunct Mars/Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Mars/Uranus
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 12th house
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