challenges and difficulties
Matt has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave him feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with his peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Dillon.
Matt Dillon has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Matt limits himself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in himself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Matt Dillon difficult to get to know intimately, as Dillon tends to distance himself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Matt Dillon instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Matt Dillon needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Matt Dillon is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Matt Dillon's growth. Matt Dillon needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
The arena he is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Matt Dillon should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials he feels he possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 1st house
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 5th house