Mary Martin
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Mary Martin denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Mary Martin needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Mary Martin also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Mary, and it is often difficult for her to share what she is feeling with others.

Mary Martin frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of her own world.

Martin identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Mary Martin takes offense rather quickly and her instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. She has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When she is not actively involved, she is not comfortable. Mary Martin actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

Mary Martin genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support her. It is relatively easy for Mary Martin to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in her life. Children are very important to Martin also.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Mary Martin also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Mary Martin expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

Although Mary Martin was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Mary's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Mary Martin flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Mary Martin feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Mary Martin to learn. Mary Martin should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

She is highly sensitive to everyone around her and is subject to strange moods or feelings. Mary Martin has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Martin to keep her expectations a bit lower.

Mary has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to her advantage. Her quick understanding of things allows Mary Martin to see beyond ordinary limits, and she has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.

In love relationships, Mary Martin desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Mary "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Martin can be very demanding of her love partner. Mary Martin tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Mary Martin is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Mary is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Mary Martin feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Mary Martin is warmly romantic and she openly expresses her appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. She enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Martin is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because she knows what she wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses her desires honestly.

Mary Martin loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy herself with her companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Mary considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. Her good humor and friendliness make her quite popular and well liked. At times, Mary Martin overdoes the festivities, but she rarely regrets it.

Mary likes to feel at one with the whole world and is cordial and warm-hearted in collaborating with others. Public-spirited, Mary Martin seems to be real content and happy only when she is among other people.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 12th house

Moon Opposition Mars

Moon Sextile Venus

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Opposition Mars/Neptune

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 9th house

Venus Trine Mars

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus Opposition Mars/N. Node