Bette Midler
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Bette Midler only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Midler.

Bette has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Bette Midler has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Bette Midler to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Bette Midler has a great deal of emotional depth.

Midler depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Bette's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Bette Midler may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Bette has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Bette Midler has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Bette Midler undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Her feelings depend on the conditions in her environment and therefore Bette Midler could be subject to moods. She is likely to have spiritual or life experiences that touch her deeply. Bette Midler could also become involved in situations where others take advantage of her.

In love relationships, Bette Midler desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Bette "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Midler can be very demanding of her love partner. Bette Midler tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Bette Midler is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Bette Midler craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Bette loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Midler.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Bette Midler in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Midler is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Bette Midler at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.

She is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and her relationships tend to be harmonious. Bette Midler will probably marry for love and her mate will be a friend to her as well as a lover. The atmosphere in her family life is affectionate and protective.

Others may get the impression that Bette Midler considers personal relationships not very important, as she may pretend to have feelings for someone when she really does not. Bette Midler would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Bette Midler treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows her affection for them. Her circle of friends is likely to be large and Midler strives for the development of a strong community spirit.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Pluto

Moon Conjunct Sun/Neptune

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 8th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon

Venus Conjunct Neptune/MC

Venus Opposition N. Node/Asc.