challenges and difficulties
Mark Harmon takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Mark enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Mark Harmon also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Harmon is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Mark Harmon does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Mark Harmon better than being with groups of his own peers.
He is inclined to be somewhat withdrawn and has a hard time discussing important matters with his family and close relationships. As a serious and deep thinker, Mark Harmon would like to explain his views to others, but has a difficult time finding the right words.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Mark Harmon instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Mark Harmon needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Harmon's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, he is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and he can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Mark Harmon has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. He should let his feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use his imagination and let his dreams emerge!
The arena he is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Mark Harmon should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials he feels he possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Mark Harmon back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Harmon's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
The tendency for self-indulgence, laziness, and over-reliance on the generosity or affection of others, as well as making love relationships, social life and superficial pleasures more important than anything else in his life.
Mark Harmon has a friendly, open and sociable demeanor and a strong desire to cultivate relationships with warm and congenial people. He may enjoy participating in artistic events and he likes to associate with art lovers.
Because of certain people and circumstances in his environment, Mark Harmon may sometimes find it difficult to follow his ambitions. It could be to Mark's advantage to sever his relationships with those who control or try to abuse him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Venus
N. Node Opposition Sun/Venus
N. Node Opposition Saturn/Pluto