approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Marjorie's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Marjorie Orr comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Marjorie Orr - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Marjorie Orr" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Marjorie a little better. This page describes the disguise Orr wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Marjorie Orr will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Marjorie has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Marjorie Orr very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Orr is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Marjorie Orr will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Orr's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Marjorie Orr appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Orr is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Marjorie possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Marjorie Orr - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Marjorie Orr does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Marjorie.
Others see Marjorie Orr as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Orr shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Marjorie Orr usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Marjorie Orr has a friendly, affectionate attitude towards others and a great deal of personal charm. Her attractiveness is one of the first things others notice about Marjorie, and is probably something she cares a great deal about. Orr gets along well with people and knows how to please them. Marjorie Orr has a well honed sense of style and beauty.
Assertiveness and confrontation is very much part of Orr's way of approaching life. Waiting for someone else to make the first move is not Orr's style. Though Marjorie Orr values harmony and pleasantness, she often feels that others are trying to control her or are not trying to cooperate with her. Others feel that Marjorie demands too much of them. Surprisingly, Marjorie Orr is often perceived by others as a trouble maker or instigator, even when Orr's intention is to help and assist them.
Marjorie Orr comes across as contained, and perhaps wary or mistrustful as well. She watches her step, and frequently withdraws if her environment does not feel welcoming and safe. As a result, Orr may seem much more conservative than she actually is. Marjorie is wary of committing social blunders and is extremely sensitive to criticism or rejection. As she matures, Marjorie Orr's confidence is likely to grow because she will learn to depend more on her own self-assessment..
Marjorie Orr comes across as liberal and open-minded. Anything new, innovative, unusual or off the beaten track arouses her interest. Orr infuses her environment with enthusiasm, new life and excitement. Though not intentionally disruptive, Marjorie Orr does enjoy startling or waking people up a bit.
Marjorie has penetrating insight into people and a keen eye and ear for the hidden, unspoken, behind-the-scenes facets of life. She may seem intense and make other people a bit uncomfortable at times. There is also a sexual quality in Marjorie's manner which can be quite alluring, in a subtle way.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Venus Conjunct Asc.
Mars Conjunct Ascendant in Libra
Saturn Square Asc.
Uranus Trine Asc.
Pluto Sextile Asc.