challenges and difficulties
Marisa has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave her feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with her peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Tomei.
She may have vague but ever-present feelings of guilt and fear that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Marisa Tomei does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Marisa Tomei must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
She is inclined to be somewhat timid and afraid to start something on her own, preferring that someone else tell her what to do. Marisa Tomei can easily be deterred from pursuing her goals, which makes her advancement in life rather slow.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Marisa Tomei instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Marisa Tomei needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Marisa Tomei needs to take what she has learned (either through formal education or her own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Marisa's quality of life or that of persons in her world, is of little real value. Putting Tomei's understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in her daily relationships, and in the multiple choices she makes every day, will enable Marisa Tomei to really test her belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Marisa Tomei is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Marisa Tomei needs to cultivate her ability to live in the present!
It is in trying to strike a balance between Tomei's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Marisa Tomei needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Marisa Tomei back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being bound to past events and experiences because of her desire to belong, deep attachments to family and the familiar (even if they are neither nourishing nor helpful), the desire to nurture or be nurtured by others, and a strong resistance to cutting the umbilical cord.
She is well mannered and has a kind, helpful and obliging nature. Marisa Tomei is very social, loves to entertain and enjoys talking with people. Marisa feels mentally in tune with others and makes a good companion.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Jupiter
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Moon
N. Node Opposition Sun/Mercury