Though Kidder may seem breezy, independent and freedom loving (as mentioned in the previous chapter), she is in fact not completely happy without a partner. She enjoys being on the move and exploring new territory, but wants a traveling companion! Kidder yearns for fulfilling, yet non-restricting relationships.
Harmony and balance are her keynotes. Margot Kidder instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and she is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Margot does all she can to avoid conflict and discord. Her spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and she often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Kidder since she can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make her own decisions. Kidder will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. She prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on her own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Margot Kidder, and she has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Margot Kidder invests a great deal of her energy in personal love relationships and she is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Margot Kidder seeks a partner who is her equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. She makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and she enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Kidder perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Margot Kidder appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in her personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to her. If Margot Kidder fights about anything, it is often about something she feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Margot. She believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Margot Kidder also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Kidder dresses and furnishes her home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to her.
Her career, reputation, and public image are very important to Kidder. Margot Kidder has a strong desire to be influential or make her mark on the world. The merely personal sphere does not satisfy her; her ambitions include making a major contribution and receiving broad recognition for her unique effort and gifts. Margot Kidder may undervalue the personal or inner side of life.
Margot Kidder tends to see things from her perspective only and to be rather subjective. She also enjoys talking and expressing her views but does not always listen as well. Margot Kidder has a clear mind, a love of learning and new experiences, and she needs constant mental stimulation and activity.
Her conscious intentions and goals are frequently opposed by her unconscious beliefs and desires. If Margot Kidder overrides her instincts and emotions because they seem to lead her in a direction diametrically opposed to the one she consciously desires, her emotions can become unruly. Poor relationships with women and/or difficulties in close one-on-one relationships are also a reflection of this tendency. However, if Margot Kidder attends to her emotional urges and feelings and listens to the voice of her intuition, dreams and gut feelings, she will derive greater satisfaction from a more balanced life.
Her life is apt to be blessed with more than her share of helpful friends, fortuitous relationships, and doors opening to her at just the right time. Because Margot Kidder is usually willing to share and to give back to others in a generous way, she continues to generate successes in her life no matter how unfortunate prevailing circumstances are. Margot should beware, however, of becoming an opportunist.
Margot Kidder has a harmonious balance between her body, soul and spirit. She enjoys intellectual challenges from others, but tends to form her own mental attitudes and philosophies of life. She may be interested in studying human nature and matters of health.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Sagittarius and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 10th house
Sun Conjunct Mercury
Sun Opposition Moon
Sun Sextile Jupiter
Sun Conjunct Mercury/MC