Margaret Somerville
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Margaret Somerville has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Margaret Somerville is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Somerville for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Somerville's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Somerville. She is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Somerville depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Margaret's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Margaret Somerville may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Margaret Somerville tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Margaret Somerville becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although Somerville gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Margaret Somerville to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about fulfilling her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Margaret Somerville; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Margaret Somerville is apt to do more than her fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.

In addition to Margaret's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Margaret Somerville craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Somerville rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Margaret Somerville does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Somerville tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and her relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Margaret Somerville enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

Although Margaret Somerville was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Margaret's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Margaret Somerville flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Margaret Somerville feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Margaret Somerville to learn. Margaret Somerville should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

Margaret Somerville has a good perception and feeling of beauty and may have a talent for painting or drawing. Margaret Somerville has a magnetic charm and is refined and calm when she is with people. Margaret has the ability to win people over by what she says and how she says it.

Her emotional life tends to be a bit strange and she is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Margaret Somerville must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving her.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Margaret Somerville gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Margaret Somerville may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Margaret feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Margaret Somerville idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

When she cares about someone, Margaret Somerville likes to show her affection with small favors or tangible gestures.

Margaret Somerville also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Margaret is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.

She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Margaret Somerville to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Somerville may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Margaret Somerville will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Pisces

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Venus

Moon Opposition Neptune/Asc.

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 6th house

Venus Quincunx Pluto