Marcello Abbado
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Marcello Abbado is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Marcello Abbado is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Marcello, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.
Marcello Abbado frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.
Abbado identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Marcello Abbado tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Marcello feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Marcello Abbado also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Abbado to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Marcello Abbado may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Marcello Abbado also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Marcello Abbado often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Marcello has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Marcello Abbado has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Marcello Abbado undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
His emotional needs are very important to Marcello Abbado and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Abbado will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.
Marcello Abbado possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Marcello Abbado will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Marcello does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Marcello Abbado wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Marcello Abbado appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Marcello Abbado often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Marcello. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Marcello Abbado may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Marcello Abbado - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Marcello Abbado is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Marcello is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Marcello Abbado professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Abbado a lot of breathing space.
He is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. Marcello Abbado has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. Marcello also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 12th house
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Conjunct Sun/Asc.
Venus in Libra
Venus in 12th house
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Opposition Mars/Jupiter
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