Mamie Van Doren
in Relationships

Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Mamie Van Doren is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Mamie Van Doren is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.

Mamie Van Doren often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Van Doren thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Mamie is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Mamie Van Doren has good psychological insight into others.

Mamie Van Doren has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Mamie out for help, sympathy or advice. Mamie Van Doren is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.

Her childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Van Doren received was erratic and unreliable at best. Mamie Van Doren has had to move a lot, or Van Doren's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Mamie was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Mamie Van Doren may long for "normalcy" while at the same time she balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.

Mamie Van Doren often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Van Doren, both emotionally and physically.

She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Mamie Van Doren cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Van Doren's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Mamie at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Mamie Van Doren is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.

Mamie Van Doren may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Mamie desires.

Mamie Van Doren loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of her love relationships would last forever! Van Doren needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from her partner and she wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to her beloved. Mamie Van Doren also has an artistic flair and she enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.

There can be a lack of harmony or satisfaction in Van Doren's romantic relationships - not necessarily a great deal of open conflict, but simply an underlying tension or discontent. This is because the people Mamie Van Doren finds likeable, lovable, and agreeable may not be attuned to her sexual tastes and needs. Another, more direct way of saying this is that the people Mamie loves and the people Mamie wants to make love with are very different from one another. Mamie Van Doren may be confused about what she really needs and wants in personal relationships. Van Doren needs to acknowledge that she has some conflicting desires (such as a partner who is very gentle and sensitive but also a powerful, dominant personality; security and commitment in love relationships alongside a great deal of freedom and excitement.) Trying to satisfy both sides of the equation can be a tricky challenge.

Sensitive and compassionate, Van Doren tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Mamie has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Mamie is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Others may get the impression that Mamie Van Doren considers personal relationships not very important, as she may pretend to have feelings for someone when she really does not. Mamie Van Doren would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon Opposition Uranus

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 5th house

Venus Quincunx Mars

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Opposition Neptune/MC