challenges and difficulties
Gray either overvalues or undervalues her possessions and assets. She can also go to extremes in dealing with bodily needs and desires, being either hedonistic or ascetic. Macy Gray may deny herself sensual pleasure and enjoyment of the fruits of her labors. She may also be stingy and unable to give freely. Many times Macy Gray feels that she does not have "enough" to make her feel secure, regardless of how much (money, insurance, etc.) she has!
Macy Gray takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Gray a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Macy Gray and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Gray will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Macy Gray tends to be very sensitive to her surroundings and is strongly influenced by the prevailing conditions around her. Macy may feels that she has more obligations than she can properly handle, and that it is hopeless to even try.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Macy Gray instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Macy Gray needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Gray's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Macy Gray has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
It is in trying to strike a balance between Gray's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Macy Gray needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Macy Gray back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
The need to be first all of the time and demonstrate an aggressive or bossy attitude, impatience or irritability; an over-eagerness to use force or violence to gain advantage and the tendency to resort to fighting or using confrontation too quickly.
Macy Gray tends to pick her friends and associates very carefully and is always on the look-out for responsible and congenial people. This enables Macy Gray to feel secure with her colleagues and she enjoys good relationships with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Opposition Moon/Neptune
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Mars
N. Node Opposition Sun/MC