challenges and difficulties
Lupe has difficulty asserting her will and desires directly and openly. She may also suppress her anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in herself are important tasks for Vélez.
Lupe Vélez takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Vélez a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Lupe Vélez and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Vélez will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Lupe Vélez becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Vélez is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Her upbringing may have been either too demanding or somewhat lacks. Lupe Vélez resists any attempt to restrict her freedom and has the ability to apply extraordinary efforts to overcome any inhibitions or difficulties that she may have.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Lupe Vélez instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Lupe Vélez needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Lupe Vélez needs to take what she has learned (either through formal education or her own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Lupe's quality of life or that of persons in her world, is of little real value. Putting Vélez's understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in her daily relationships, and in the multiple choices she makes every day, will enable Lupe Vélez to really test her belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Lupe Vélez is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Lupe Vélez needs to cultivate her ability to live in the present!
It is in fostering a personal vision or philosophy of life, whether through religious or philosophical studies, education or the wisdom of distant lands or cultures that Lupe Vélez is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Lupe Vélez needs to cultivate the qualities described above in this endeavor. Long distance communication and involvement with foreigners is likely to be significant to Vélez.
Lupe Vélez has a tendency to shy away from other people, and she reacts toward others in an almost fearful way. Vélez seems to lack confidence in herself and for this reason may feel that she lacks the ability to adapt easily into relationships with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Opposition Sun/Uranus
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 9th house
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Saturn