Louise Lasser
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Louise Lasser denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Louise Lasser needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Louise Lasser also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Louise Lasser has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Lasser also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Louise, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Louise Lasser has a cheering effect on those around her. Louise likes and needs people, and others genuinely like her too. She enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to her. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to her emotional well-being.

There is another side to Louise Lasser as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Louise Lasser often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Lasser actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Louise Lasser to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Louise Lasser becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Lasser can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Lasser's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Louise Lasser is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Her relationships have an emotional overtone and Louise Lasser has a strong desire to share her feelings with others. Her circle of friends is likely to be large and Louise enjoys many pleasant meeting with them.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Louise Lasser gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Louise Lasser may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Louise feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Louise Lasser idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Louise Lasser craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Louise loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Lasser.

Louise Lasser has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well being. It is rare for Louise to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Lasser. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Louise Lasser to channel her passion.

She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Louise, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Louise Lasser tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Lasser's life.

Her erotic nature is strong and Louise Lasser is likely to have a lot of romantic relationships. Very unconventional, she may have many unorthodox contacts. Louise has much zest for life, likes her freedom and finds it difficult to settle down.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 6th house

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Conjunct Mercury/N. Node

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 8th house

Venus Sextile Mars

Venus Sextile Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mars/Uranus