Louis Malle in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Louis Malle only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Malle.
Louis has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Louis Malle has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Louis Malle to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Louis Malle has a great deal of emotional depth.
Louis Malle often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Malle thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Louis is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Louis Malle has good psychological insight into others.
Louis Malle tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Louis to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Louis Malle may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Louis Malle is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Louis Malle also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Malle is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Louis Malle is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Louis uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Louis Malle does.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Louis Malle in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Malle is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Louis Malle at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
His romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate, and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with him. Oftentimes Louis Malle is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that he has very little choice or control over his powerful feelings.
He may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive himself. Louis Malle should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for he could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Neptune
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 1st house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Sextile Pluto
|