Loris Stecca
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Loris Stecca has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Stecca is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Loris Stecca seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Stecca tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Loris' well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Loris Stecca substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Loris, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.

Loris Stecca frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.

Stecca identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Loris Stecca genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support him. It is relatively easy for Loris Stecca to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in his life. Children are very important to Stecca also.

Loris Stecca has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Stecca would react more intensely. Loris is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

In addition to Loris' rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Loris Stecca craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Stecca rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Loris Stecca craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Loris Stecca to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Stecca. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Stecca likes it that way.

His emotional needs are very important to Loris Stecca and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Stecca will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.

Loris Stecca has a positive emotional outlook and cultivating spiritual relationships with others is important to him. He is likely to have a big circle of friends and acquaintances and he loves to give and receive social invitations.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Loris Stecca gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Loris Stecca may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Loris feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Loris Stecca idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Loris Stecca very happy. Loris wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Loris Stecca may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Stecca is a natural host or diplomat.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Loris Stecca to be able to deeply respect his partner. Loris looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for him. Loris Stecca is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

When it comes to love relationships, Stecca is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Loris Stecca has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Loris acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Loris Stecca to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Loris becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Loris Stecca really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Loris' closest relationships.

He is romantic and amorous and has a well-developed sexual nature. Loris expresses his feelings openly, but sometimes could feel hurt if people do not respond to him. Loris Stecca also has a strong drive to express himself in artistic ways.

Others are drawn to Stecca because of his affable, social and appealing disposition, and he is likely to have many pleasant and friendly relationships. Loris Stecca also has strong artistic inclinations and may consider a creative field as a profession or hobby.

He may be subject to periodic changes of mood, is serious, somewhat somber, and he seems to lack confidence in himself and could have trouble giving of his. Loris Stecca tends to avoid close relationships, expecting to be disappointed if he lets anyone come too close.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 12th house

Moon Sextile Venus

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Conjunct Sun/Asc.

Moon Opposition Jupiter/N. Node

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 10th house

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Conjunct Sun/Mars

Venus Conjunct Sun/MC

Venus Conjunct Moon/Saturn