challenges and difficulties
Anderson fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Loni Anderson may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Loni.
Anderson is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Loni Anderson does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Loni Anderson better than being with groups of her own peers.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Loni Anderson instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Loni Anderson needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Loni Anderson is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Loni Anderson's growth. Loni Anderson needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her public life and career that Loni Anderson is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Anderson's reputation and standing in her community or professional circle, as well as how Loni Anderson achieves her important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Loni Anderson in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Anderson, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Loni Anderson should care for and nourish children, plants, pets or other people. She needs to make a home, create and sustain strong relationships with her family or a community that can support her and give her a sense of safety and belonging.
Loni Anderson should develop her listening skills and deepen her understanding and appreciation of women and their perspective. Loni Anderson has to learn to trust her own feelings, intuitions and emotional needs. She needs to care for herself in an accepting, non-judgmental way.
It is in Loni Anderson's best interest to take all that is good and helpful from her past and use it in a new way. (If she is so inclined, Loni may want to explore the potential of past-life regression to tap into gifts she has already developed).
Loni Anderson tends to pick her friends and associates very carefully and is always on the look-out for responsible and congenial people. This enables Loni Anderson to feel secure with her colleagues and she enjoys good relationships with them.
She may have an inner fear of separation and could feel left out or ignored at times. Loni Anderson may have not received much affection while she was growing up or it had to be shared with others. Loni could find it difficult to show her love in her relationships.
Loni Anderson has a strong desire to break records and set an example for others through her own achievements. Loni tends to spur others on to improve results and her relationships with others is for the purpose of bettering conditions.
Loni has the power to influence people to her way of thinking and may forcefully try to obtain the leadership in her community. Others cannot help noticing her, and Loni Anderson will probably be the leader in any clubs or associations she may decide to join.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 11th house
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Moon
N. Node Conjunct Sun/MC
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Pluto
N. Node Conjunct Pluto/MC