Lizzie Borden challenges and difficulties
She is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing herself freely and openly is not easy for Borden. Lizzie Borden tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of her "performance" is an important task for Lizzie.
Borden is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Lizzie Borden does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Lizzie Borden better than being with groups of her own peers.
Borden forges ahead diligently, but may have to work harder than others to gain recognition for her efforts. Reserved and shy, Lizzie Borden tends to build a wall between herself and others and she seems to be more receptive to older and more mature people.
Somewhat shy, Lizzie finds it difficult to relate to people and tends to withdraw from others. Since it is hard for Lizzie Borden to establish relationships, she would rather be by herself. Lizzie prefers everything to be simple or plain and prefers a more humble and secluded life.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Lizzie Borden instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Lizzie Borden needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Lizzie Borden's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Borden's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Borden's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Borden's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress she is likely to become overly focused on herself and her own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Borden's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Lizzie Borden needs to strike a balance between doing for herself and doing for others, by discovering how Borden's unique gifts can benefit others.
The arena she is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Lizzie Borden should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials she feels she possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Lizzie Borden back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
Lizzie Borden tends to over-rely on luck or grace, living for tomorrow and gambling. Lizzie is overconfident and tends to overextend herself and take on more than is humanly possible. Lizzie is often dogmatic about her philosophy of life or religious beliefs.
She is very socially minded and it is easy for Lizzie Borden to show her affection. Her family or community probably provided fertile ground for her development. Borden may love to show off a little and she thrives on being involved with others in joyful group activities.
Lizzie Borden thinks of others before she thinks of herself and is always ready to lend a helping hand. She is deeply concerned with the community she lives in, loves her family and relatives and has a strong need to maintain close relationships with them.
Borden is inclined to seek out relationships with people who have the same interests and she has a desire to work with them on obtaining mutual objectives. Some of Lizzie's contacts or introductions could come about suddenly.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Asc.
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Asc.
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Opposition Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Sun/Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Moon/Venus
N. Node Opposition Uranus/Asc.
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