Lisa Snowdon in Relationships
Open and generous, Lisa Snowdon enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Snowdon rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Lisa always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Lisa Snowdon often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Snowdon, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Lisa Snowdon to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Lisa's aspirations and ideals. Lisa Snowdon also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Though she yearns for close relationships, Lisa Snowdon often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Snowdon is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.
No matter how she appears on the surface, Lisa Snowdon has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Lisa's sympathetic, affectionate side. She especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and she wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as she does. Snowdon is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
Snowdon can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Lisa Snowdon puts up subtle walls and distances herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Snowdon may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Lisa Snowdon might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge she faces.
In addition to Lisa's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Lisa Snowdon craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Snowdon rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Lisa Snowdon does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Snowdon tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and her relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Lisa Snowdon enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
In love relationships, Lisa Snowdon seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Lisa, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Lisa Snowdon supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Lisa that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Lisa Snowdon is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Lisa Snowdon craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Lisa loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Snowdon.
Lisa Snowdon tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Snowdon may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Lisa Snowdon is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Lisa believes she has - is vital for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
When it comes to love relationships, Snowdon is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Lisa Snowdon has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Lisa acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Lisa, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Lisa Snowdon tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Snowdon's life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 8th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Quincunx Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Sextile Uranus
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 8th house
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Sextile Uranus
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