challenges and difficulties
Linda Lovelace has a penchant for order and precision, and an almost compulsive attention to detail. She is often hypercritical and can be such a demanding perfectionist that she discourages herself or others from even attempting something that will not be done exactly the way Lovelace knows it should be done.
She frequently over analyzes or picks things apart mentally. Linda Lovelace may also be somewhat of a hypochondriac. Linda must learn that she does not have to rationally understand everything in order for it to be valid, and also to relax her unnecessarily high or strict standards.
Linda may be plagued by fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death. She strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for her.
On another level entirely, Linda Lovelace is very careful about joining forces, and especially her material resources, with others. Lovelace wants to keep her own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Because she is somewhat inhibited when initiating relationships with others, Linda Lovelace may prefer to be by herself. Linda may feel that she does not fit in very well with others and as a result, may have difficulties with team-work.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Linda Lovelace instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Linda Lovelace needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Linda Lovelace benefits by becoming more aware of the rhythm of the seasons and the natural world, learning to slow down and allow life to unfold in its own time. Nurturing a garden, a child, or some other living, growing thing gives Linda Lovelace a sense of inner balance.
Linda Lovelace has a tendency to be deeply suspicious, to not take anything at face value and to see hidden agendas and dark motives even where none exist! Life does not have to be a constant conflict... Linda needs to learn to accept things as they are.
Lovelace also needs to develop patience, peace and stability by grounding herself in her daily work and behaving consistently and reliably towards others.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Lovelace's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Linda Lovelace needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
Linda Lovelace loves to show off the strength that she possesses and she has a strong desire to dominate others. Linda seems to have an exuberant craving for recognition and importance and a need to influence and lead large groups of people.
She may have an inner fear of separation and could feel left out or ignored at times. Either Linda Lovelace did not receive much affection while she was growing up or it had to be shared with others. Linda may find it difficult to show her love in her relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Virgo
Saturn in 8th house
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/N. Node
N. Node in Taurus
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Sun/Pluto
N. Node Opposition Venus/Saturn