Linda Darnell
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Linda Darnell denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Linda Darnell needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Linda Darnell also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Linda has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage and family traditions. In fact, Linda Darnell may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Darnell's ties to her mother are very strong and Linda also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members.

Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Linda Darnell does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Darnell tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and her relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Linda Darnell enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

Her intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Linda Darnell that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. She may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Darnell's neediness often drives others away. When Linda Darnell does let herself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses she suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt she endured. She may also reenact these situations in her present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Darnell will do a lot of cleansing if she can listen to what her feelings are telling her. If not, Linda Darnell will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

Linda has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to her advantage. Her quick understanding of things allows Linda Darnell to see beyond ordinary limits, and she has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.

In love relationships, Linda Darnell desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Linda "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Darnell can be very demanding of her love partner. Linda Darnell tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Linda Darnell is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

For Linda Darnell, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and she loves giving and receiving gifts. Linda greatly values luxury, comfort, and elegance and appreciates beautiful things. She can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people she loves and of her belongings is something Linda Darnell needs to beware of.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 4th house

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 2nd house