approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Lili's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Lili Taylor comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Lili Taylor - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Lili Taylor" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Lili a little better. This page describes the disguise Taylor wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Lili Taylor is always questioning and learning, and she seems young and alive no matter what her chronological age, for her mind is always alert, curious, flexible, and open to new experiences. Lili Taylor has a childlike enthusiasm for anything new and she learns easily, but she also gets bored rather quickly. Taylor can be somewhat of a scatterbrain, for she tends to have so many ideas and irons in the fire that it is hard to keep track of them all. She needs and craves variety, change, mental stimulation, and an active social life.
Articulate, clever, often funny and witty, she is always a refreshing and interesting conversationalist. Lili Taylor enjoys meeting and interacting with a variety of different people. She is friendly, flirtatious, and charming in a playful way, and no matter how badly she may be feeling, Lili never comes across as melancholic or somber. She may seem frivolous to other, more serious souls. Lili Taylor has a sense of humor and a sense of perspective that prevent her from taking herself or life too seriously. In fact, Taylor may seem flippant or unconcerned about matters that others consider very important.
In general, Lili Taylor responds to life mentally and objectively rather than emotionally, and she may not empathize with people very much. Lili does not like to be weighed down with too much responsibility or with others' emotional burdens. Furthermore, if she cannot fully grasp something with her reason and logic, Taylor will often choose to ignore it, including her own and other people's irrational feelings, desires, and needs.
Consistency and reliability are not great virtues of Taylor's and her life is apt to be full of changes and movement due to her restlessness. Lili Taylor becomes nervous and fidgety if things are not moving quickly enough. She is interested in what is current and up-to-date, the newest trends in thought or style.
Her gifts are a quick mind, verbal facility, a flair for language, social sophistication and polish, the ability to communicate, converse, and build bridges between people and between ideas. Lili Taylor tends to become an incessant chatterbox or gossip if she does not have work or other activities that utilize her mental, verbal, and social skills.
Lili Taylor appears to be sweet to other people, and she knows how to use charm, persuasion, and affection rather than more direct (but possibly disagreeable) methods to get her point across. Being overly concerned with appearances and surface beauty is possible; and if so, Lili Taylor may also seem vain and narcissistic to others.
Lili Taylor appears contained, and perhaps wary or mistrustful as well. She watches her step, and frequently withdraws if her environment does not feel welcoming and safe. As a result, Taylor may seem much more conservative than she actually is. Lili fears making mistakes in social situations, and is extremely sensitive to criticism or rejection. As she matures, Lili Taylor is likely to grow in confidence, because she will learn to depend more on her own evaluation of herself.
Lili Taylor seems quirky, unusual, offbeat and "different". Sometimes it seems that she is trying to provoke people and upset the status quo just by being herself. Taylor tends to be restless, excitable, and somewhat ungrounded or nervous as well.
There is a receptive, elusive quality to Lili's personality. Taylor can be difficult to pin down, difficult to know, something of a mystery. At times Lili Taylor may feel frustrated because she feels that she is not being perceived very clearly, that she does not make a powerful impression, that she is easily overlooked or discounted. If she does not wish to be "invisible", Taylor must make some effort to define and clarify - both for herself and for the rest of the world - who Lili Taylor is. On the other hand, Lili Taylor may purposely create illusions about herself with the intent to deceive - or entertain - others.
She is charming and friendly to everyone, but may prefer more superficial and frequently changing relationships with people rather than steady and lasting friendships. Some of her meetings with others could come about suddenly.
At times Lili Taylor may feels that she is all alone in the world and that other people only cause difficulties for her. Constantly bounced to and fro by others, Lili has a strong desire to free herself from her stressful surroundings.
Lili Taylor tends to be extremely hard on herself and others. She may have been brought up under difficult circumstances and now feels that life is very tough. Lili does her duty, expects the same from others, and has no pity for anyone.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Venus Square Asc.
Saturn Square Asc.
Uranus Square Asc.
Neptune Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Venus/Uranus
Asc. Conjunct Saturn/Uranus
Asc. Conjunct Saturn/Pluto