Lil' Chris
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Lil' Chris only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Chris.
Lil' has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Lil' Chris has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Lil' Chris to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Lil' Chris has a great deal of emotional depth.
Lil' Chris has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Lil' sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Lil' Chris is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Lil' wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.
Lil' has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Chris cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Lil' Chris tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Lil' to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Lil' Chris may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Lil' Chris seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Lil' has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Chris can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
Lil' Chris has a strong sense of duty, is serious and tends to see everything on the dark side. Lil' should guard against emotional inhibition and depression. He prefers to lead a secluded, modest and simple life.
Lil' Chris has a strong desire for genuine understanding with others and finds it easy to share his feelings with them. His feelings toward others are very loving and Lil' is likely to have a lot in common with many of his friends.
Chris relates to others on an emotional level, because he feels his emotions so strongly yourself. He is sensitive to others' needs and has the ability to create a cozy atmosphere when he is together with another person.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Lil' Chris cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Lil' wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Lil' Chris is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Lil' Chris craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Chris enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Lil' is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Lil' Chris feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Lil' Chris experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Lil' Chris has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Lil' Chris can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Lil' Chris has a need for calm and peaceful surrounding, but his somewhat passionate nature could bring on arguments and fights about love matters. Lil' Chris loves his work and may connect his profession with a hobby in some way.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 1st house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Conjunct Sun/Saturn
Moon Conjunct Venus/N. Node
Moon Conjunct N. Node/MC
Venus in Leo
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mars/Asc.
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