challenges and difficulties
Arcieri fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Leila Arcieri may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Leila.
Her childhood or her relationships with her parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Leila from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. Leila Arcieri felt deprived in some manner, whether or not she actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of her needs and feelings may typify her early life, at least as Arcieri remembers it. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, Leila Arcieri needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Leila accomplish this.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Leila Arcieri instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Leila Arcieri needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Leila Arcieri to become distracted from her path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to her. Leila Arcieri needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Leila directs her attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", she is apt to dabble, scatter her energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for her life and aligning her daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Arcieri's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward her personal development.
It is in her public life and career that Leila Arcieri is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Arcieri's reputation and standing in her community or professional circle, as well as how Leila Arcieri achieves her important life goals and aspirations.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Leila Arcieri back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Leila Arcieri's rigid self-control overly restricts her ability to freely express herself or explore possibilities. She is excessively concerned with work, duty and security. She tends to be fearful, judgmental towards herself or others, and can feel alone and cut off from sources of nourishment outside herself. Leila Arcieri should try to learn to relax and recognize that not everything is Arcieri's responsibility.
The following are specific activities that will support Leila Arcieri in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Arcieri, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Leila Arcieri should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put herself "out there", be seen and shine. Leila needs to be willing to take on a leading role. She needs to be a hero - a protagonist in her own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities she possesses. Doing creative work that she is proud of - anything that comes from Arcieri's heart and bears the stamp of Arcieri's individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than she is a way for Leila Arcieri to grow and become more whole herself.
Leila Arcieri tends to have deep bonds with the people she associates with and is likely to encounter some unusual or fated relationships. Some of her contacts could be with very influential people who may be of help to Arcieri in the future.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 4th house
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Opposition Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Conjunct Pluto/Asc.