challenges and difficulties
Bernieri both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting herself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Laura, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Laura Bernieri is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Bernieri.
Laura Bernieri has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Laura limits herself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in herself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Laura Bernieri difficult to get to know intimately, as Bernieri tends to distance herself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Because of her inner reserve and basic shyness, Laura Bernieri appears to lack adaptability and is a bit inhibited in dealing with other people. Her approach is somewhat serious and it is difficult for Laura to face the public.
Basically shy, Laura may become a bit inhibited when talking with other people. Laura Bernieri tends to withdraw from others and likes to live a humble, quiet live in seclusion. She may get involved with a group of a secretive nature, although Bernieri is not one to join groups in general.
Not very adaptable, Laura Bernieri tends to be rebellious and fight hard against oppression. This could even lead to violent incidents, so Laura should try to keep her temper under control. She may have to work extremely hard and may have a lot of responsibilities that she cannot let go.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Laura Bernieri instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Laura Bernieri needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Laura Bernieri has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that she is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Laura Bernieri needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, she has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, she may encourage others to depend on her emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Laura Bernieri needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Laura Bernieri is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Bernieri's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Conjunct Sun/N. Node
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/N. Node
Saturn Conjunct Pluto/N. Node
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 3rd house