challenges and difficulties
Lari Pittman takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Lari enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Lari Pittman also fears entrapment in close relationships.
It may be difficult for Lari Pittman to play spontaneously or just let his hair down, for he tends to inhibit that side of his by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression he is making.
Lari may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for he wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged, and recognized as special in some way. Though he may indeed be outstanding, Lari Pittman also needs to learn to relax and enjoy himself more.
Lari Pittman tends to seesaw between hope, optimism, and faith versus doubt and oppression by limitations and practical realities. He needs to overcome impatience and restlessness in order to achieve his dreams and desires for a better life.
Lari Pittman becomes tense and upset rather easily. He becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In his eagerness to see his inspirations materialize, Pittman is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving his goals. His occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Lari Pittman instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Lari Pittman needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Pittman's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, he is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and he can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Lari Pittman has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. He should let his feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use his imagination and let his dreams emerge!
It is in his public life and career that Lari Pittman is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Pittman's reputation and standing in his community or professional circle, as well as how Lari Pittman achieves his important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Lari Pittman in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Pittman, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Lari Pittman should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put himself "out there", be seen and shine. Lari needs to be willing to take on a leading role. He needs to be a hero - a protagonist in his own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities he possesses. Doing creative work that he is proud of - anything that comes from Pittman's heart and bears the stamp of Pittman's individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than he is a way for Lari Pittman to grow and become more whole himself.
Lari Pittman has to learn to communicate and express himself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Lari to study, learn skills and develop his intellectual interests and capacities. Pittman needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing his intellectual reasoning ability. Lari Pittman should practice using his mind, his thinking skills and his ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for him.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Lari Pittman to pursue.
He is well-mannered and has a kind, helpful and obliging nature. Lari Pittman is very social, loves to entertain and enjoys talking with people. Lari feels mentally in tune with others and makes a good companion.
Lari Pittman tends to be fascinated by new and obscure things and may be strongly attracted to the occult. He may contribute to spontaneous forming of groups and could gain spiritual enlightenment together with other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 5th house
Jupiter Opposition Saturn
Saturn Square Uranus
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Mercury
N. Node Opposition Uranus/Neptune