Lanford Wilson
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Lanford Wilson has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Wilson is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Lanford Wilson seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Wilson tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Lanford's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Lanford Wilson substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Lanford Wilson has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Lanford sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Lanford Wilson is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Lanford wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Lanford Wilson often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

There is another side to Lanford Wilson as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Lanford Wilson; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Lanford Wilson is apt to do more than his fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.

Lanford has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Lanford Wilson may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.

In love relationships, Lanford Wilson is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Lanford enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Lanford Wilson responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Wilson is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Lanford Wilson is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Lanford uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Lanford Wilson does.

Lanford Wilson shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Lanford's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Lanford Wilson also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Lanford likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

In contrast to the above-mentioned open, tolerant, live-and-let-live policy he adheres to in his personal and social relationships, Lanford Wilson has another, far more demanding and compulsive side when he is emotionally involved. He may become obsessed with having great material comfort, especially if he is unfulfilled romantically.

Lanford Wilson experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Lanford Wilson has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Lanford Wilson can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

He is likely to have many romantic relationships or unusual love experiences. Lanford Wilson tends to fall in love quickly and enjoy a conquest, but then tire of what has been conquered. If he does not keep this in control, he could end up in a hasty marriage and a quick divorce.

It is easy for Lanford Wilson to show others the love he feels for them and he talks freely to them about his feelings. Lanford likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify his environment as quickly as possible, once he has come up with an idea to do so.

Lanford Wilson tends to be a bit envious and is inclined to begrudge other people. Quite suspicious, he may misconceive the relationships or associations of others, and become dissatisfied himself. Lanford could also be subject to improper liaisons.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 1st house

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon Sextile Pluto

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 1st house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Square Jupiter and Venus Square Pluto

Venus Square Pluto

Venus Conjunct Sun/Uranus

Venus Conjunct Uranus/Asc.

Venus Opposition Neptune/N. Node