approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Lance's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Lance Reventlow comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Lance Reventlow - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Lance Reventlow" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Lance a little better. This page describes the disguise Reventlow wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Lance Reventlow is always questioning and learning, and he seems young and alive no matter what his chronological age, for his mind is always alert, curious, flexible, and open to new experiences. Lance Reventlow has a childlike enthusiasm for anything new and he learns easily, but he also gets bored rather quickly. Reventlow can be somewhat of a scatterbrain, for he tends to have so many ideas and irons in the fire that it is hard to keep track of them all. He needs and craves variety, change, mental stimulation, and an active social life.
Articulate, clever, often funny and witty, he is always a refreshing and interesting conversationalist. Lance Reventlow enjoys meeting and interacting with a variety of different people. He is friendly, flirtatious, and charming in a playful way, and no matter how badly he may be feeling, Lance never comes across as melancholic or somber. He may seem frivolous to other, more serious souls. Lance Reventlow has a sense of humor and a sense of perspective that prevent him from taking himself or life too seriously. In fact, Reventlow may seem flippant or unconcerned about matters that others consider very important.
In general, Lance Reventlow responds to life mentally and objectively rather than emotionally, and he may not empathize with people very much. Lance does not like to be weighed down with too much responsibility or with others' emotional burdens. Furthermore, if he cannot fully grasp something with his reason and logic, Reventlow will often choose to ignore it, including his own and other people's irrational feelings, desires, and needs.
Consistency and reliability are not great virtues of Reventlow's and his life is apt to be full of changes and movement due to his restlessness. Lance Reventlow becomes nervous and fidgety if things are not moving quickly enough. He is interested in what is current and up-to-date, the newest trends in thought or style.
His gifts are a quick mind, verbal facility, a flair for language, social sophistication and polish, the ability to communicate, converse, and build bridges between people and between ideas. Lance Reventlow tends to become an incessant chatterbox or gossip if he does not have work or other activities that utilize his mental, verbal, and social skills.
Lance Reventlow comes across as contained, and perhaps wary or mistrustful as well. He watches his step, and frequently withdraws if his environment does not feel welcoming and safe. As a result, Reventlow may seem much more conservative than he actually is. Lance is wary of committing social blunders and is extremely sensitive to criticism or rejection. As he matures, Lance Reventlow's confidence is likely to grow because he will learn to depend more on his own self-assessment..
Lance Reventlow is extremely sensitive to all the impressions and energies around him and at times can be overcome or dominated by more forceful personalities. Learning to establish clear boundaries is important for him, as Lance Reventlow tends to become enmeshed emotionally and/or psychically with whomever he is with. He may have the chameleon's trait of appearing to become the people or person he is with the most.
His family conditions may have been a bit oppressive, adding a note of gravity to Lance's personality. Somewhat insecure, Lance Reventlow may feel that others restrain him. He has doubts about mankind in general and a fear of failure.
He is likely to live in an unusual or somewhat restless environment. Lance Reventlow needs his freedom and may be a bit inconsiderate and combative toward others at times. Lance has a strong desire to exceed his limits, even if it means having to use force.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn Square Asc.
Neptune Square Asc.
Asc. Opposition Saturn/Neptune
Asc. Conjunct Uranus/Pluto