Krista Allen
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Krista Allen denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Krista Allen needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Krista Allen also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Krista Allen has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Allen also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Krista, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.

There is a side to Krista Allen which loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Allen can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Allen. If Krista's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Krista Allen can be so soft and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Krista is particularly prone to.

She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Krista Allen expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

There is another side to Krista Allen as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Allen can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Krista Allen puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Allen may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Krista Allen might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

Krista has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Krista Allen has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Krista Allen undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

In a love relationship, Krista Allen is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Krista likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Krista Allen becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Krista Allen's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Krista Allen needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Allen finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Allen is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Krista Allen thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Krista Allen is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Krista Allen pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Intimacy does not come easily to Krista Allen and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Allen does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Krista Allen needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

Krista Allen tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Krista frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Krista Allen also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Krista Allen loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Allen may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Krista has an affectionate nature and is in harmony with her environment. Charming and friendly, she is on good terms with most of the people in her sphere. Her friends and associates mean a lot to Krista Allen and her relationships are positive and loving.

Krista Allen seems to have an unusual power of attraction to other people and frequently may associate with others whether they are good for her or not. Very compulsive in love relationships, Allen could have a kind of tragic love union.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 6th house

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon Square Pluto

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Conjunct Sun/Asc.

Venus Opposition Pluto/N. Node