Kim Philby
in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Kim Philby has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, H.A.R. Philby is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.
Kim Philby seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, H.A.R. Philby tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Kim's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Kim Philby substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Kim, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
Kim Philby frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
H.A.R. Philby identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Kim Philby feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Kim may not realize how competitive he is.
He needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Kim Philby is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Kim has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make him cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Kim - one that can be enormously satisfying if he can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if he cannot.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Kim Philby craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. H.A.R. Philby also loves to feel free and unfettered.
Although Kim Philby was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Kim's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Kim Philby tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Kim to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Kim Philby may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
He is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Kim Philby is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of his strong points and Kim must learn to master his irritability and quarrelsomeness.
In love relationships, Kim Philby desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Kim "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. H.A.R. Philby can be very demanding of his love partner. Kim Philby tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Kim Philby is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
H.A.R. Philby is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in his relationships that love and cherish him. Kim Philby prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Kim.
Kim is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness makes Kim Philby very popular.
Kim Philby simply does not feel alive without vibrant, passionate love relationships in his life, and if his romantic urges are frustrated or if his intimate relationships become too tame or mellow, Kim Philby will do something to stir up the flames. Kim Philby relates naturally to fighting, competition, tumultuous conflict, and fiery lovemaking. He may be more selfish and demanding than he realizes.
He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Kim, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Kim Philby tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in H.A.R. Philby's life.
Sensitive and compassionate, H.A.R. Philby tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Kim has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Kim is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Kim Philby to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, H.A.R. Philby may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Kim Philby will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Kim Philby has a passionate nature and a strong expression of his sexuality. His creative energies also are strong and he may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.
He makes a good impression on others and tends to attract people who want to take care of him, which could cause Kim Philby to become too dependent on others. Partnership is important to H.A.R. Philby, and he is inclined to change his ways just for the sake of love relationships.
Kim Philby has a need for calm and peaceful surrounding, but his somewhat passionate nature could bring on arguments and fights about love matters. Kim Philby loves his work and may connect his profession with a hobby in some way.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 12th house
Moon Conjunct Mars
Moon Opposition Venus
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Mars/Asc.
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 7th house
Venus Opposition Mars
Venus Sextile Uranus
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto
Venus Opposition Moon/Mars
Venus Opposition Moon/Asc.
Venus Opposition Mars/Asc.
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